Tarry The Mystery Of Waiting by Apostle Joshua Selman: MP3 Download & Sermon Notes
Waiting Is A Place Of Exchange
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- 4 meanings of waiting upon the Lord
- Waiting on men or intellect brings disappointment
- 3 reasons to wait: refining, exchange, revelation
- 3 dynamics that make waiting profitable
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You cannot fail
God is with us. The meaning of that is that you cannot fail. It will look like you can fail but you will not fail
Sometimes when you see the kind of load put in an aircraft, you wonder if it can lift. Don’t disrespect the people who built it. They factored in what can enter
You keep putting the load and it will taxi slowly, but there is an agency within it. By the time it begins to run, anything that stands in its way will be tidied
That airplane is you, packed in already, ready for another flight. Backed up by God, backed up by wisdom, backed up by power. There’s nothing the devil can do about it. It’s too late
You are born again. Too late. Filled with the Holy Ghost. Too late. Access to wisdom. Too late. Yes, there is such a thing as too late
Mary said if you were here on time. You can reverse it and tell trouble, sorry, you came too late. You would have come before I had the truth, before I received the Holy Ghost
But now I’m born again, filled with the Holy Ghost. I have access to light
Welcome to your season of victory. Welcome to your season of dominion. Welcome to the season where you manifest as a sign and a wonder.
Your enemies will be the ones testifying of the goodness of God in your life.
Many will knock your door and say, tell us the secret. Many will knock your door and say, we testify that God is with you.
You will go from glory to glory. You will be a wonder to your world. No weapon fashioned against you will prosper. The hatred of men will not matter to your destiny. Testimony after testimony.
Don’t trivialize the statement that God is with us. When God is with a man, it makes all the difference
God is with us means wisdom is with us. Power is with us. Consistency is with us. Victory and triumph is with us
- Lord Jesus, we thank you for salvation, for your sacrifice that made for us a new and living way.
- Access to your life, to understanding, to wisdom, to grace, to the possibilities of the kingdom. Access to your spirit.
- We have come as students in the school of the spirit, hungry and desperate. We will not decline in learning and pressing for more, because we know that in you there is more.
- We press for more, we cry for more, we ask for more, we yield for more, we align for more.
Tarry: the mystery of waiting upon the Lord
The light that comes, it comes to liberate. It comes to set you on fire. It comes to reposition you and put you in the place of power so you can walk in dominion
I want to show you the mystery of waiting upon the Lord. What does it mean to wait upon the Lord? What does it entail to wait profitably?
What are the blessings that follow? Is there value, is there profit in waiting upon the Lord? Am I disadvantaged if I ignore this mystery?
Isaiah 40:28 to Isaiah 40:31
It begins with a question. The word faint means to gas out, to be weary, to be fatigued. That possibility does not exist with God. That is how vast his understanding is
This is a reality that befalls all men. No matter how healthy or vibrant, once you are earthbound, even the youth will faint and be weary
The glory of young people is their strength, yet they will fall
Here is the mystery. They, not everyone, not every Christian, but they. It matters the object of the waiting
Psalm 27:14
I like to write scriptures. That is how God built me. My life is wordbased. I’ve seen the vanity of exalting emotions above the word. I’ve seen the vanity of exalting even logic above the word
Some of us have found an anchor for safety and consistency. I don’t want to take risk with my life. Word founded, word built, word roofed, word everything
When you walk the way of the word, there is a guarantee that you will win. Don’t start with the word and mix it with human imaginations, vain philosophies, or overdependence on self
Walk that way and your life will be a sign and a wonder
Lamentations 3:25 to Lamentations 3:26
God is a good God, but among the principles of profiting from his goodness is waiting on him. That already gives an idea of what waiting on him entails
It is a good thing that you engage this mystery of waiting in hope for the salvation of the Lord
Micah 7:7
He waits like a maid waiting for her mistress, because he knows God will hear him
Psalm 130:5 to Psalm 130:8
That is a level of desperation and determination to wait
One reason we wait is that he is the only one who can show mercy and he is lavish in showing redemption. We wait because we understand he is merciful and plenteous in redemption
Psalm 25:4 to Psalm 25:5
Show me your ways means show me the mysteries of the kingdom. Because my desire is to know your ways, to understand your path, to learn your truth, I will wait on you all day long
What tarry means
Tarry means to linger, to wait. It extends to mean to stay longer than proposed or planned. You decided to shelf every other activity and place priority on what you are doing
You decided to stay 2 hours and for whatever reason, passion or an obstruction, you stayed longer than planned. We say you have tarried
The average believer hears wait upon the Lord and thinks fasting and prayer. That is correct, but it is the latter part of the definition
Most of us have not derived maximum profit because we limited what waiting means. The average Pentecostal charismatic thinks piety through fasting and abstaining from food
4 meanings of waiting upon the Lord
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Fellowship
Fellowship that builds intimacy, conviction, strength and power
It builds intimacy with God. It builds conviction about God in your heart. It builds strength, capacity, stamina. It opens doors to be endowed with spiritual power in ever-increasing dimensions
This comes through ministering to the Lord. In one word, think fellowship
2 Corinthians 13:14
The word communion there is koinonia, the sharing together, the intimacy, the participation of the Holy Ghost
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The discipline and patience of staying to align with divine timing
Romans 8:25
Sometimes you feel frustrated because you desire certain things, but you know there is a timing component to receiving from God, so you wait patiently
Psalm 27:13 to Psalm 27:14
A man weary and about to give up because time is gone. He says no, wait. He emphasizes it two times, like the Bible does with rejoice
The time spent waiting upon the Lord, no matter what you lose, that time will be rewarded
Aligning with divine timing and prophetic seasons. God may have told you he would move a certain way, but that activity of the spirit is connected to timing and seasons
Illustration: the rainy season
If I have a vision of a bumper harvest, and it’s not a prophetic vision, most likely it will be achieved in the rainy season
You can deploy irrigation, but the season has an advantage. I don’t labour for water. The atmosphere is conducive, the soil is soft enough for farming
There is timing to prophecy. There is timing in walking with God. It’s not enough to think fellowship. Think the discipline and patience of alignment until you come in sync with divine timing
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The posture of dependence, trust and wholehearted reliance on God
Dependence on God for direction, for next level strategies, for the power to function
I depend on you for divine direction. I depend on you for the strategy for the next season. I depend on you for the power to function
Luke 24:49
Tarry does not mean sit idly. It means sit with the consciousness of dependence until you are endued with power from on high
Proverbs 3:5 to Proverbs 3:7
Acknowledging him in all your ways is part of the extended meaning of wait
This is also one of the meanings of looking unto Jesus. It doesn’t just mean to crave to see him in a vision. It means a posture like a maid looking to her mistress for help.
Total dependence and trust
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The spiritual activities engaged during your time with God
Especially prayer and fasting. This is the one most of us know, and it is wonderful, but only when the first three are intact
It is not limited to prayer and fasting. Your time in worship and in the study of the word also refer to waiting upon the Lord
Waiting is only guaranteed to profit when it is upon the Lord
The Bible does not tell us waiting brings profit. Waiting can be a waste of time. It can lead to pain and defeat. Only when it is waiting upon the Lord is there a guarantee of profit
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Many people are waiting because of ignorance. Many because of fear, confusion, or because they’ve been blinded by darkness
2 kinds of waiting that disappoint
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Waiting upon men and human connections as your source
Wait here means to rely on, to invest your trust and expectation on. That waiting leads to vanity and pain
Psalm 60:11 to Psalm 60:12
Men only profit you when they are channels, not sources. When a man is a channel he becomes a profitable channel, because the help came from somewhere
All blessings come from God through men, not from men. The job can come through your uncle but it comes from God. The lifting can come through your uncle
When it comes from men you have made man God in your life. Anybody who tries to take the place of God, even well intentioned, is destroying you
We live in a world full of arrogant men. Sometimes we talk as though we are God
We make people wait to give ourselves the impression that we have the exclusive power to do and undo with their lives and destinies
The psalmist said the only reason he woke was because the Lord sustained him.
Someone can promise you a job. As helpers we need to be careful not to delve into the position of God
There are times you can be this close to help and yet not have the power to help
The preacher is a servant of God, not God. He didn’t die for you. If you made him God in your mind, that becomes your bad
A man can hunt and prepare the meal, but the power to eat it comes from God. The hospital is full of wealthy people who would have wanted to live otherwise but were incapacitated
My help comes from the Lord. I know your mind goes to your landlord. To the billionaire who promised you, whose house you went to last night and you have not slept since
Or you came expecting Joshua Selman to strike his hand like a magician and have you healed. My help comes from the Lord
If the man God chose to help you decides not to partner with God, you don’t cry, because only the channel was compromised. The source is still intact and God will reroute another channel
This does not mean you go around telling people God can do without you. That is for God to say, not you, so it doesn’t backfire on you
We need to shake off overdependence on men. How do you call one man 200 times? He says meet me next week
You pray, God, this man has come close, let him not sleep till he gives it to me. God says what if I change my mind? And you say no, God, don’t change your mind
If I perceive you can help me, I will come to you sincerely, without arrogance. If you choose not to help, I will not be offended
I respect your decision and go to the source of all help. I say, Lord, since they have refused, can you reroute another strategy?
If no man, God can make stones help me. God can make a fish bring you the coin.
For you, he first starts with men. When men refuse, he takes you to the sea
A correction to the body of Christ. God gives us wisdom to engage the systems he has put for our prosperity and influence
But let us not become so systemic that we forget there is a God who controls it
Careless statements like you don’t need God to prosper. I know what we mean to say, but you can stand face to face with your finances and the hand to receive it will not be able to receive
Principles only work when spirits don’t manipulate the process. We are not left with principles alone upon the earth. There are real spirits
1 plus 1 in principle is 2. But 1 plus 1 plus a demonic attack cannot be 2, in a way you cannot explain
An aircraft in principle should lift based on the laws of aerodynamics, but even pilots know that some carry charms
Businessmen know the secret to wealth is supply of value, yet why do they go to herbalists?
The balance: for many, waiting on God is a way of spiritualizing irresponsibility
I won’t read, I won’t study, I won’t drop the application, God will do it. That is false waiting and leads to pain
Prepare the horse, but safety is of the Lord. You need both
If asked to choose one, leave the horse in a hurry and hold on to God. If you throw away God because you have a good horse, the horse can die. The horse can even refuse to move
Let men be your channels and not your source. You can know whether men are your source by the level of pain, anger and regret when they tell you no
If you become angry and start cursing them, your heart attempted to make them your God and that idol disappointed you
When a man tells you no, humanly speaking it will pain you. Just say, God thank you, at least you have tried for me, and go to the one who does not fail
I learned from Dr. Mudok many years ago, if my word is correct, that God’s obsession is to be trusted. His heart is pained the moment you share dependence between him and any other entity
When you explore every option, it always looks like it works, because a part of you is still trusting so and so
When it fails and you say, God I trust you, he knows now you are not lying
He is the one who makes it work. He is the force that powers principles. Before you explore principles, make sure your heart is stayed on him as that force
No matter how guaranteed any man is, because they are humans they will disappoint you, maybe at the point you need them most
I’m saving you heart attack on time. Don’t go around getting angry. There are people who see a preacher and say, if you had prayed for me I would have gotten a job. Don’t harass the preacher
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Waiting upon your intelligence and your ideas
You make your intelligence and ideas your source. There is an overestimation of self that is dangerous for destiny actualization and dominion. Be confident, but not overdependent
Proverbs 3:5 to Proverbs 3:7
When you are brilliant, gifted and learned and you pray God help me, there can be an air of arrogance. God knows that prayer is not from a broken heart
Sometimes ignorance makes you cry out genuinely because you know you’re in trouble
But when you looked at the exam questions and said this is child’s play, that is not dependence
You can fly me into a conference and whisper the topic to me on arrival. I may not do my best intellectually, but I will not do the worst either
It is the power of being instant in season and out of season.
When you get to that state because of the abundance of knowledge, be careful. That is the seed of pride and dependence on intellect
When you see me praying and crying before God preparing for Koinonia or any meeting, I don’t do mojo. When you depend on your intellect you will be disappointed
I have seen intelligent people present their facts rightly, yet those who listened did not believe or receive
Another man brings frail truths in the midst of noise and people swallow it with passion, including intellectuals. You wonder what they heard from him
You came with an encyclopedia in your head, sociology here, philosophy here, medicine here. At the end they say it was a nice meeting, we hope to see you one day
Be confident about your sacrifice. It is a big mystery in this life
I’ve seen someone competent come for an interview, a fine young man looking like Saul. At the end they just say, you’ll hear from us
Another, a confused person, came late and did all the wrong things. He sat down without being asked
He could not answer question one. For question two he honestly said, I don’t know. They asked why he was there and he said, honestly, I have a kind heart, I can serve
The manager said, you also hear from us. You want to see grace, go for visa interviews
At visa interviews you find noise makers, the well suited, disturbing people who are tensed and waiting. They enter and come out as if they announced a funeral for them
Another, who looks like he was just released from kidnapping, enters and comes out smiling. He got his visa
I’m not insulting intellectual preparation. But once you overdepend on your intellect, you will be disappointed. There are preachers, businessmen and professionals who overdepend on intellect
Illustration: the disciples and epilepsy
The disciples took power into their hands. They didn’t start with milder issues, they came straight with epilepsy.
They were not fake, but did the miracle work? You don’t have to be fake to be disappointed
They laid hands, did all their drama. The man said, wait for Jesus. He told Jesus, sir, they wasted our time
They were stung, which is why they pursued Jesus and asked why they could not heal this. They felt good about being his disciples, even driving children away from him
That frustration later built up to I go out fishing. We’ve left all to follow you and could not heal the sick. The only time we enjoyed healing was when you sent us
When they returned from being sent, they were shocked because the same thing they could not heal now worked. They asked what changed. Dependence on the intellect
Continue to invest in knowledge. Be sound, be intellectually powerful. But when all is said and done, it is not the abundance of your knowledge. Many intelligent people suffer as if their knowledge were a waste
When you are intelligent and you depend on him, that humility powers your intelligence to bring you profit
Men you invest your trust in become God in your life. Many times they propose to be God in exchange for solutions
Make sure you know God before you start insulting men. Some like this teaching and say thank God I don’t have to go and beg my uncle
Go and beg, my friend, if you are not even prayerful. Your uncle is an agent of mercy
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You can wait upon your intellect. You can wait upon men as your source. It can work sometimes, but in most cases it will not. There is no guarantee for consistency.
3 reasons to tarry
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Waiting provides the platform for the making, refining and remolding of the man who desires to be used by God
It allows God to minister to the believer as the refiner, the maker and the purifier
We have all kinds of motives, ambitions and desires locked up in our hearts and minds
Waiting allows God to prune and edit those motives until all that is left in you is the desire to glorify Jesus
This is where self and flesh die. Character and motive are realigned to Christ
I desire a great life, prosperity, fame, renown, wealth, influence, godly or carnal
When you carry all that as luggage to the place of waiting, God ministers to you as refiner, maker and purifier of motives and desires
Only God knows the kinds of desires that would have sponsored my appetite for ministry if waiting did not prune some. He is still working in me
Some desires the carrier is not even aware of. They hide quietly waiting for opportunity. You may even be beguiled by your own desire. Remember, guard your heart
A man who has never held money may never know that pride and dependence on finances can affect him
A man who has never had influence or renown may not know what ego will do. God sees the end from the beginning
Illustration: garden egg and worms
You bite a garden egg and see worms in it. How did they get there? The outer part looked alluring
A fly pecks around, you don’t know something rested there, and eventually you see maggots. That’s how our hearts are
You may not know when the desire latched on, like a virus. Pride got there and you did not know. Vain glory got there and you did not know
Those who know how to wait upon the Lord, you may see pride, lust, selfish ambition, give them until their next retreat
They disappear for 3 days or a week and come out like a cloth that has been washed by hand. God marinates them in his presence until everything that is not him leaves
The day you feel everything is right with you and nothing is locked up in your heart, that already is a revelation that deception is hiding
If you don’t deal with it, it will deal with you in the future
In the place of waiting even your shape and texture is changed. Gold in a bar, subjected to intense temperature, melts and a blacksmith turns it into any shape
It is purified from 15 carat to 18 to 21 carat, and you look at the price and want to say God forbid
- Purify my heart. Prune my motives. Test my motive.
- You know the things locked up in me before they destroy me now and in the future.
- Show me mercy as a preacher before you begin to open doors of ministry.
- Let wealth not become a curse. Let fame and renown not become a curse.
- Let me not pride in the abundance of revelation. Let much learning not make me mad.
- That desire for a husband, for a wife, prune the lust in my heart before he comes, before she comes.
The goal is that you become a sign and a wonder, an object of praise, but not this version of you
Allow him to do the work of pruning. You may cry, but let him prune you, build you, line upon line, precept upon precept, like a refiner’s fire refining gold and silver
When he’s done, it’ll be clear it was worth it. Not when he starts. Maybe one year, maybe a few months of a rigorous process of purifying
Stay. Become intertwined with him until his life grows and makes you a blessing.
God says give me your heart. Preacher, not your sermons. Businessman, leave your ATM and your accounts.
Your waiting is wasted if you do not become the clay. Your waiting is wasted if the gold called you is not upgraded from 15 to 18 to 21 carat
Let the anger die as you wait. Let lust, over ambitiousness, unforgiveness die as you wait
Let the anger that is hiding, I will visit all of them one by one when I make it, die
The more purified your vessel is, the greater the weight of glory. The glory of God comes in weights
Don’t admire certain levels of glory until you are willing to align to the death connected to that glory
There is a dimension of death that equals a kingdom billionaire. Don’t desire just the business idea that made the man
The transaction part you don’t need God for, you just need brain. But the covenant part, no sir
There is a dimension of death that equals being trusted with the program of God nationally
Most times we see the effulgence of the glory and desire it, but we hate the process that leads to that death. Death and glory is a deep kingdom mystery
The way to live is to die. Galatians 2:20 is a realm in the spirit. My desires crucified, my flesh crucified, my ambitions crucified
When God starts with you, the first thing he does is smash the current texture until you become clay
In a way you would think your life has been wasted. Then he begins to remold
Illustration: the pastry
A woman making pastry, you have no idea what she’s making, meat pie or chin chin. Only she knows
She cuts, then it goes into boiling oil and stays there while she watches. The shape becomes firmer, the colour changes. When it gets golden brown, she says it’s done
Today you look golden. Tomorrow you look like you are not a believer. Stay in that fire
You preached last week with power, by next week it was as if you were not born again. You are not done yet. The refining is not over
Tarry until flesh dies. Tarry until ambition dies. Tarry until all of you reflects all of him
- Father, by your spirit, work on me as a refiner’s fire.
- As the potter works on the clay, refine me, purify me, make me until I become a vessel of glory.
It is a beautiful sight to see a vessel God has finished on. By finished I don’t mean he will not work on that man again, but at a level it is beautiful
You see character, wisdom, maturity, power and influence all in one man. Refined by God, made by God
For someone, God is almost done. Don’t run. Men have told you that by now you would have become a prophet. Stay
You already see visions, but character needs to be worked on. The gift of the Spirit minus character will abort a great destiny
Stay longer than usual, longer than expected, longer than planned. I know you didn’t plan to be here in 2026, but stay. The maker is working
He is removing everything from your life so you will have space for wisdom and power
The kind of destiny you have seen, this version of you cannot get there. The kind of wealth you have seen, this version of you cannot get there
You get to a realm where one enchantment by darkness can crumble your company even though you are productive. You will need to understand the depths of the power of God
It takes buying and selling to attract wealth, but it takes strength to retain wealth.
God is raising you to be the savior over a family rooted in idol worship, 17 of you, and nobody has risen. You are the one who will open that gate
You are about to confront the beast of Ephesus. Let him walk upon you
A big secret. Every time your prayer is not answered beyond a certain level, stop praying about what you are praying for and start praying about yourself
Many times when you pray right and it is not answered, it is not the answer, it is the person receiving the answer
The faster you change, the quicker the answer. Accelerate your answer by evolving in a hurry. There are prayers you will not need to pray because many answers were designed to respond to growth
There were things I prayed for in my life, and at a point I ignored them and focused on me, the training, the building. I didn’t even know when the answers arrived
Not, God, let people stop despising me. Pray, Lord, let me grow, let me carry your glory, let me walk in humility and character
Pray that for one month and you will not need to pray about increase in honorarium. Many carnal prayers are direct reflections of the refusal to grow
You are organizing the crusade, resources are not coming, everybody is ignoring you. It is in your destiny, but this version of you cannot host it. Say, Lord, walk upon me, build me
Illustration: Premier Hotel, Ibadan
One day as he is building you, they will call you sometimes in the same location
Many years ago I went to Premier Hotel in Ibadan and I did not have the money to pass the night. I stayed awake
I asked if there was a church around so I could attend a vigil and not waste my time
Years later I went to preach, I think it was in UI or one of the places. From the airport they took me up that hill, and I could identify faces I saw before. They couldn’t recognize me
Everybody was clapping, apostle, apostle. They took me to the highest floor and kept me there
I put my chin on the window, almost in tears, waiting for my time to go and minister. I watched my guys swim and play table tennis from that altitude
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There are many things you are praying for. You pick the signal because it is in your destiny, but this version of you cannot get there
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Waiting is the place of exchange
Where divine transactions happen. Your weaknesses and limitations are exchanged for his strength
Your limited human perspective and assessment of things are exchanged for a divine perspective and an accurate interpretation of things
It is at this place you gain stature and capacity to host tremendous dimensions of God’s power and wisdom without it overwhelming or destroying you
Isaiah 40:31
The word renew there is not revitalize. I used to think so, but the root Hebrew word means to swap, to change
Like Jesus stood in my place and gave me his strength, carried my unrighteousness and gave me his righteousness. It is actually exchange
If left to interpret your life using emotions, intellect, human wisdom, your conclusions on why this door did not open will most likely be wrong
In the secret place a superior diagnosis, a spirit birthed interpretation, replaces that low-level assessment
Without the right interpretation, the death of Jesus looked like the defeat of a champion. Invincible for 33 and a half years, then they caught him, flogged him, stripped him
Humanly it looks like a man whose charm has failed. And yet death was the path to glory. Before Pilate he had the opportunity to advocate his release, and he kept quiet
There are many judgments in your life of things and people that will be wrong until you go to the secret place
In other words, I have exhausted everything I know to do unless God shows up for me
A spiritual man can laugh through pain because the secret place has afforded him a more superior interpretation of things
You prayed for your loved one not to die. At a point the loved one gave you a smile and died. For years you carry the thought, how does a healer not heal my father or my mother?
In the secret place God reveals a bigger picture and what you call death was actually profit.
Illustration: the cancelled flight
You get to the airport and they tell you the flight is cancelled. Everyone rants about the airline
The spiritual man steps back and says, God, there must be a bigger purpose. It does not have to be a plane crash
After 3 or 4 hours you converse with someone and find out he is the manager where your husband has been looking for a job. It was never about the flight
Do you have the maturity to let negative situations bring the glory of God? Light shines into darkness, but there are times light shines out of darkness, out of pain, shame and disappointment
Some of the most amazing miracles in my life happened after disappointing events. I’ve been indoctrinated that God loves me
When things don’t happen my way, I’ve lost the ability to shout and complain. My next call is, Lord, let my mind be aligned to divine purpose. What was the point? Reveal it to me
The job did not come, the one who promised to marry you died or left. Don’t blackmail any man of God
After you cry, because you are human, get up and say, God, there is something you are doing
There were things we wanted to do as a ministry that were not wrong, the resources were there, but there were very strange restraints, spiritually and in opportunity
Today I am grateful a thousand times that I went through them
There are pains in my life that are scars of dignity. The wisdom and anointing they brought is priceless. I wouldn’t trade it for anything
There is a gift of pain. Not every negative situation is demonic. Some pains usher you to the secret place, where you find what took you there and what you did not know was there
The place of exchange. Watch what exchange does
Isaiah 61:2 to Isaiah 61:3
For beauty you must bring ashes. If there is no ashes, that kind of beauty is not for you
The oil of joy is for those who have cried genuinely. The garment of praise is for the spirit of heaviness
- Lord, I exchange my pain for your glory. I exchange my limitations for your strength.
- I hand over my tears, my disappointments, the shame, the reproach, the insults that came on account of my diligence.
- Father, you said your yoke is easy and your burden is light. This yoke is killing me, weighing me down. I exchange it for your strength and your joy.
- Take away this pain and give me joy. Take away this disappointment and give me peace.
You are not called to explain your life to people. Just stay with God and cry for an exchange
Don’t conclude on anyone who loves God. They may be weak but watch the maker in that refining place. He will receive that weakness and infuse strength
It will not always be that way. You cried, I agree. But a day will come you look at what made you cry and you will not cry again, because strength has come to you
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Waiting is a place of revelation and divine downloads
Psalm 25:4 to Psalm 25:5
I wait for revelation. I wait for divine downloads
Where mandates, patterns and strategies for your life and kingdom assignment are delivered
It is dangerous to experiment with your life and destiny with every available idea or what is trending. Your life is too precious for that expensive experiment
We live in a world obsessed with doing what is trendy and coming up with human ideas to drive a God-given destiny
Destiny fulfillment depends on understanding the mandate and receiving the pattern or strategy connected to it. You can understand your mandate and use a wrong strategy for execution and still fail
A correct mandate plus a divinely ordained pattern. You get that in the secret place, through inclining your ears to his voice and your eyes to his visions
Jeremiah 33:3
Things pertaining to your destiny, the next season, 2027, your home, the next level. I call them next level strategies
Something you received from God brought you where you are today. Something you need to receive now will take you to the next phase
I receive the strategy. I receive the pattern for the next level of my kingdom exploits.You will open the Bible and see the next level of your life there. You will go to bed and those five, six, seven hours will be full of prophetic road maps
For someone the next business where your wealth is tied will be revealed verbatim
I have been saying this every Sunday for 3 weeks. When brook Cherith dries, make sure you pray.
The strategy that sustained you at Cherith is not the strategy for the next level
I am ever conscious that as a believer I am progressive. I stay faithful with what he told me, but I align my ears like Habakkuk.
What is the key to Koinonia’s future? It will take more than the downloads we have received to drive Koinonia to her next level
3 ways to discern the will of God:
- The revelation of his will as contained in scripture
- The revelatory ministry of the Holy Spirit, extracting and deducing the will of God for a situation
- The prophetic. Not just a prophet speaking to you. Every experience, dreams, visions, impressions of the spirit make the prophetic
For every prophecy and mandate there is a winning strategy allotted to it. You have to know the winning strategy, not just the prophecy
3 dynamics of profitable waiting
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Assume a posture of surrender
Your focus must be more of yielding and alignment than presenting a list of desires and demands
Whether praying, fasting, spending time with the Lord or depending on him, let your mentality be more of surrender and yieldedness than presenting requests
You profit more when your heart is largely stayed on alignment than on presenting requests. It doesn’t mean you don’t present your desires
Slice out a small portion for desires, but a major part should be alignment. A posture of surrender makes waiting profitable
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Make it a lifestyle, not a circumstantial practice
Waiting upon the Lord yields maximum result when it becomes a lifestyle. If you wait only when in trouble, you will experience him but may not have the best of him
It must become a culture of waiting beyond a practice of waiting
Not once a year
Does the deer ask for water just once? Even if it drinks today, it goes back tomorrow
Many do not maximize the secret place because the general assembly is coming and we are praying and fasting. In 2 weeks it is done and they look to other things
Let this practice evolve into a mentality and a culture
You love him more than your necessary food. Every opportunity to spend with him you cherish, because there is profit. It must be consistent and delightsome, not a burden
Every day when you wake up he occupies your mind. Not a fire brigade spiritual approach only when there is a special program
You don’t just read your Bible because a conference is coming. You don’t pray only when you hear a mysterious tree fell in your village or a mysterious fire got into houses
If you have to wait for trees to fall, you are not spiritual enough. Let challenges come and meet you waiting
Man of God, don’t wait until you have six invitations before you open your concordance and study as if your life depends on it, then return to nothing.
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Focus on the quality and intensity of communion, not just the duration
In fasting, praying, Bible study and worship, focus on the quality and intensity of your communion with God, not only the duration of the exercise
Nothing wrong with disciplining yourself with minutes or hours. But once you become hour conscious, you think 4 hours tomorrow is better than 3 hours of yesterday
It is the purity of the connection
Timing has a place. You can’t give God 5 minutes and expect the stamina of a man who gave him all. Those rituals are disciplines that build stamina
But when you get to the place of waiting, it is not you that defines how long you stay. God is the chief host
You plan 30 minutes to make contact with heaven, but that day the glory rests on you. God is saying today is not like every other day, stay
If you are time conscious more than connection conscious, you get up and say I’m on my way, and you miss a kairos moment
The 5 hour prayers, 8 hour prayers, 3 days, fasting for one year are wonderful, but you grow into it. It is a mistake being made in the body of Christ
It takes a skill to fast a long time and to stretch and pray
Illustration: the learner driver
Someone who just learned to drive today wants to drive passengers to Lagos with an L on his car. You can play that game around the corridor of your house
But on that road trucks will not mind that you are a learner. This is what happens to people spiritually
I’m not a medical practitioner, but I know people who engaged in prayer without mentorship and stamina and ended up with psychosomatic problems
We have sponsored people’s admission to teaching hospitals because they started praying and ended up behaving like mad people
I’m not saying that is what prayer does. It is what happens when people are not guided. It is line upon line
They pass out and get into a realm of the spirit and have experiences they lack the word to explain or defend. They can return and call that realm heaven
A realm in the spirit does not mean heaven. The realm of the spirit is a vast atmosphere with almost infinite layers. It is the word that gives answers about where you went
Parents have called me about daughters who started praying. People have brought me notebooks with writings and inscriptions, and I know they are occultic
They are sincere, but this makes lazy spiritual people blame prayer. The issue is not prayer, not even long prayer. There must be a system of guidance to maximize that experience
Being open to the prophetic dimension requires guidance. You can return from a vision with an effect no medical cure can treat, because it happened to your spirit man
Isaiah and the prophets became physically sick from the frequency of their encounters. Jesus felt the amount of power that came out of his spirit man.
As a man of God ministering under intense anointing, when the anointing for that assignment lifts, it will take the grace of God. Ask pastors’ wives
A man can stand 3 days without sleep, but when that anointing lifts you may have to admit him in the hospital
There is a grace that supports what you see us do. It is not pride. There is also a skill to it. We compensate ourselves
I have prayed for 72 hours and my eyes did not see the sun. There are things you see when you stretch beyond a certain dimension that, if I told you, would look like heresy
It’s not doctrine, so we focus on the word of God because that is verified
Waiting and praying many hours is healthy when it is guided through mentorship and spiritual leadership. We must not overburden younger believers just starting, because it is dangerous for their life
There is a psychosomatic implication to engaging your mind consistently. I’m giving you a medical explanation. When you chant nonstop you are creating a neuropathway
I want your Christian life to be profitable. God did not die to produce fools
So in addition to a time frame to guide and discipline you, focus more on the quality and intensity of your communion beyond the duration of the time
- Let your glory, your power and your wisdom be invested in my life. Let me find direction, meaning and purpose in your presence. Let me find next level strategies.
- Father, the grace to desire your presence more than my necessary food. More than ministry, money, a job, children, marriage, promotion.
- I wait upon you as an expression of my desperate desire for fellowship, intimacy.
- I wait as a press for your timing, for prophetic seasons. I will stay where you kept me. I will wait while I cry, while I am pruned, while I am purified.
- There is a divine timing connected to my rising, connected to my shining. Give me the discipline and patience of staying to align to your divine timing.
- Let my waiting not exceed the timing. I will wait until my season. When my season comes, let the devil not take advantage of my yieldedness and prolong my days of pain.
- Give me the faith, the grace and the courage to push until I enter the next phase of my destiny.
- I tarry as proof that I depend on you. There are many ideas, man-made strategies and borrowed strategies in my mind, but I wait on you. Give me direction, strategy, the power to function.
- I wait upon you to obtain the grace to engage the spiritual exercises that make for power: prayer, the study of the word, worship, fellowship.
- I receive grace to fast, to pray, to tarry, to press.
When God is done working on me, his glory, wisdom, power and strength will be revealed in me and through me.
I receive the grace to tarry. I will tarry till I am changed. I will tarry until I receive strategies for the next level.
I will tarry until his glory is revealed in me. I will tarry until my capacity is increased and enlarged.
I will tarry until the secrets of my destiny are revealed to me. I will tarry until power from heaven rests upon me.
I will tarry until my eyes see and my ears hear. I will tarry until the spirit of faith rests upon me.
There is power in waiting
This is a culture, a mystery you must embrace. You stay till his glory comes. You stay till he speaks. You stay till flesh dies. You stay till the direction for the next season comes
You will look like a fool while you wait. But the treasures that come with waiting are called the riches of his glory
This is one of the biggest secrets of God upon my life. When you wait upon yourself and your strength, it most likely will be a wasted adventure. Waiting starts with Jesus. It is upon the Lord
Salvation prayer
Justify your waiting by allowing the savior who will also double as your refiner and purifier. It starts with being in the kingdom. Transformation is useless until there is salvation
It is beyond a renewal of strength. It’s a translation, an exchange. Death for life, defeat for victory
One of the reasons we wait is because we wait for his salvation.
It doesn’t matter what you have done or not done. Jesus is able to give you a new beginning
- Lord Jesus, I love you truly with all my heart.
- I believe you are the son of God. I believe you died for my sin and rose again for my justification.
- Right now I receive Jesus into my heart as my savior, my lord and my king.
- I declare that the power of sin, Satan, hell and the grave is broken over my life.
- From today I’m a child of God. I go forward ever and backward never.
- Father, I thank you for these ones. Your word declares that as many as come to you, you will in no wise cast away.
- I ask that the power that saves become theirs. I call them bonafide recipients of eternal life, recipients of the Holy Spirit, with grace to walk in victory as the righteousness of God in Christ.
Your deliverance through salvation remains permanent. That satanic bondage is broken over your life in the name of Jesus.
Assignment
Listen to this message again. Listen to what waiting is about, why we wait and how we wait so that we maximize his blessings
Not every part of this message may edify you equally, but the Holy Spirit like a radar will guide you to the punchline that matters to your spiritual life. Stay there and build your spirit
Blessing
Laughter, rejoicing, advancement, prosperity, spiritual fire, discernment, divine direction, speed, restoration, may they be your portion.
This week you will see God’s power in a way you’ve not seen throughout this year. You will experience the God of wonders in an unusual way. Testimonies upon testimonies. Good news worthy of congratulations.
For your shame, receive double. For your times of disappointment, may my God give you a consolation. You will have a reason to dance and celebrate.
Receive divine strategies through dreams and visions in the place of prayer. Fresh grace upon your prayer altar. Your passion for the word and for worship will multiply. You will find profit in intimacy.
This week receive the grace to fast and to wait upon the Lord. Before the week is ended, let your testimony arrive.
Apostle Joshua Selman
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